Are You Looking For A Partner? First, Fall In Love With Yourself
If one of your goals in life is to attract and maintain a meaningful relationship, fall in love with yourself. In addition to working for that relationship, you must work to love yourself.
Being and believing that you are a person with whom it would be difficult not to be madly in love is the best way to achieve a lasting, healthy and exciting relationship.
Falling in love with oneself begins with knowing oneself, as well as the enjoyment of daily life, enjoying what time is occupied with.
On the other hand, falling in love with yourself implies having your own beliefs clear, feeling capable of living and enforcing your own values and being aware of the importance of defending your own integrity.
If you are not attracted to yourself, why would your partner? Having clarified this, we will have to answer the question: how do I fall in love with myself?
Fall in love with you, but how?
Before continuing, let’s make a clarification: falling in love with yourself is a matter of self-esteem, and it has nothing to do with narcissism. Fall in love with yourself and show your best version to your partner, you just have to follow these steps:
1. Look at yourself from the outside
Observe yourself. Look at yourself in the mirror. What you see is what others see. You like what you see? What could you do to improve your appearance? It is not about being more handsome or having a better figure or better skin. It’s about how you look.
You have to take advantage of it, dress in a way that you feel comfortable, comb your hair, give yourself a touch of color or shave properly. It is about giving an image according to your personality. A person who does not take care of himself will not take good care of others, nor will he value the efforts that the other makes to take care of himself (or, at least, that is what it seems).
Offering a positive aspect, in your line, will help you keep your self-esteem high, to be authentic and increase the respect you feel towards yourself. And respecting yourself is the first step for others to respect you and to value that respect that others have for you.
2. Watch your manners
How you talk and how you behave with others says everything about you. How you greet, how you get on talking to people, how you address them when you have to say or ask for something or how you react to different situations, even how you laugh, all of this is a cover letter.
Your manners also speak of the confidence you have in yourself, the respect you feel towards yourself and towards others, how nice or not you are, even how funny.
3. Get over appearances
The above has no chance of succeeding if what you show is not really part of you. You must be authentic, overcome the game of appearances and make your presence and the way you interact really become part of you. What you are and what you show must be in tune.
4. Don’t forget your friends
Your friends are part of your life and if you have to give them up for your life as a couple, you don’t respect yourself enough. If you love yourself, you should know that life does not begin and end with your partner.
In addition, your friendships will allow you to obtain other types of complementary experiences, which you can well share with your partner. Also, a person with friends is a trustworthy person.
5. Fall in love with yourself, develop your own projects
A person who develops and fights for his own projects is a very valuable person, who has ideas, interests, who makes an effort, who commits himself. He is a person with whom you can make plans, with whom you can aspire to improve, grow and be better, a person who adds value to life and its environment.
In addition, participating in group projects shows you as a social person, collaborative, with a desire to live and with a desire to have fun.
